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Not Every Relationship Needs a Reset

Sometimes It Just Needs a

Reality Check-In

Download the Free Relationship Check-In for Couples to understand what’s working, what’s strained, and what your relationship may be asking for right now.

If conversations keep missing each other…

If the same tension keeps resurfacing…

If things feel “off” but you can’t quite name why…

This relationship check-in

helps you pause, reflect,

and get clarity—without blame, defensiveness,

or turning it into a fight.

What This Check-In Helps You Do

This Checklist Helps Couples:

• Identify patterns that often go unspoken

• Reflect on communication, trust, and connection

• Notice where effort feels balanced or strained

• Start honest conversations with less reactivity

It’s not about deciding who’s right.

It’s about recognizing what’s real.

How to Use the

Check-In

For Best Results:

• Each partner completes the checklist individually

• Answer based on what is generally true over time

• Review responses together in a calm, respectful space

Differences in answers are normal.

They highlight where conversation—not conflict—is needed.

Who This Is For

This Check-In Is For Couples Who:

• Still care but feel disconnected

• Want better communication without constant tension

• Feel stuck in the same arguments

• Are navigating stress, transitions, or change

• Want to be proactive instead of reactive

You do not have to be in crisis to benefit from this.

What This Check-In

Is Not

This Check-In Does Not:

• Diagnose your relationship

• Assign blame

• Replace therapy

• Tell you whether to stay or leave

It’s a reflection tool, not a verdict.

If emotional harm, safety concerns, or unresolved betrayal are present, professional support is strongly recommended.

Ready to Check-In Before Things Check Out?

Download the Free Relationship Check-In for Couples and start a healthier conversation today.

About the Creator

LaMora D. Pace, LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Worker | Relationship Therapist

LaMora Pace has over 20 years of experience helping individuals and couples improve communication, rebuild trust, and heal from emotional and relational wounds through trauma-informed, culturally responsive care.